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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 03:23

How does one succeed in life?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How do people break a narcissist man's ego?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why are US customs agents so talkative? I cringed hard when a US customs agent asked me if I was on vacation. He doesn’t need to know why I went to another country as long as I am a U.S. citizen.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why are people so rude to debt collector’s? I am one and I am so tired of being mistreated. We are under paid and then have to deal with the most ungrateful, and disrespectful people. We aren’t customer service. Don’t get mad at us because YOU owe.

Making more friends is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

How can we worship Shri Krishna at home? Is it enough to install an idol, or are there other rituals that are mandatory?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Have you ever been forced to undress for money just once?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In what circumstances might a chaperone be appropriate for a medical examination?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What can I do when I'm ugly on both outside and inside? What do I do? Cut myself off from the world to make everyones lives better? I'm a monster. I hurt feelings, and I say what was said to me. I feel like I'm nothing but a burden. What do I do?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

That's it for today.

Does meth make women super horny like it does men?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

In what ways is modern day Russia similar to the USSR? How does it differ from the USSR in terms of culture and politics?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What I need from you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Does not procrastinate.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.